Health
Nothing in this section is exciting, and that is the point. The things that most reliably ruin someone's sex life are boring, common, and almost always fixable once somebody says them out loud.
75%
Pain during sex is common, and never something to accept
Three quarters of women experience it. Most causes are treatable.
45%
Most condom failures are fit, not manufacturing
Breakage is rare. Slipping off the wrong size is not.
3
Silicone lubricant destroys silicone toys
The single most expensive thing people learn by ruining something.
3.8–4.5pH
The vagina cleans itself, and washing it causes the problem
Douching raises the risk of exactly the infection it is meant to prevent.
88%
A vaccine that prevents a cancer, with the numbers in
1.7 million women followed. The effect is not subtle.
12weeks
The pelvic floor is a muscle, and it responds to training
The evidence is strong, and the timescale is longer than people expect.Browse by shelf
Seven questions
Wondering what would suit you?
Seven questions, two minutes, and one straight answer. Nothing is saved.
Take the seven questions Twenty questions, for twoWould you rather talk about it together?
You each answer twenty questions on your own. Afterwards you see only what you both said yes or maybe to — and a plan for the things you agreed on.
Open Let’s talk about sexGeneral information, not medical advice. Anything persistent or painful belongs with a doctor, who has heard it before.