The myths
A myth survives because it explains something people were anxious about, not because anyone checked it. These are the ones that are still repeated in good faith by people who would be embarrassed to learn where they came from.
50%
Nobody can tell by looking
The examination that is supposed to reveal virginity reveals nothing.
26%
Sex does not stop at sixty
The assumption that it does is why older people stop being asked.
0
No food has ever been shown to be an aphrodisiac
Oysters, chocolate, chilli — all of it fails under a placebo control.
19×/day
Men do not think about sex every seven seconds
That would be 8,000 times a day. The measured figure is 19.
0
Shoe size predicts nothing
Two urologists measured 104 men to settle it, and it is settled.
5days
There is no reliably safe day
Sperm outlive the assumption the calendar method rests on.Browse by shelf
A shop has two hundred of them. One of them is right for you.
Seven questions: who it is for, what sounds appealing, how quiet it has to be, what it may cost. Out comes one type — with what to look for, what it costs, and what nobody prints on the box.
- Sixteen types, from a bullet vibrator to a blindfold
- No brands, no shop, nothing for sale here
- Two minutes, and nothing is saved
Find out what you both want — without either of you saying it first.
You each answer twenty questions on your own, and neither of you ever sees the other’s answers. Only what you both said yes or maybe to comes back. A no and a maybe look identical from outside, so saying no costs nothing — which is what makes the answers honest.
- Six sets of twenty questions — three by depth, three by subject
- An evening you can actually plan, built from what you agreed on
- No account, no names, and it deletes itself after a few days
General information, not medical advice. Anything persistent or painful belongs with a doctor, who has heard it before.